Tips for Choosing Your Wedding Speaker
It is your wedding, the most memorable event of your life. It’s the celebration that you’ll never forget your whole life and probably end up tell stories about it to your grandchildren in the years to come. This is the importance of the event and you want everything to be just perfect. You have planned very hard for it and don’t want to blow it for any reason within your hands. Everything’s in your control and what about the wedding speaker?
Normally it is the best man and maid of honor who give the wedding speech. That there’s matron of honor too who’s in the line next. This is all good and fair but you should really plan well if you decide on keeping a wedding speech in your wedding. You wish your wedding speech to be of lovely and sweet words that’d touch the hearts of the people in the reception room but what if it just end up to an embarrassment which you regret your whole life. First step of your plan can be choosing the best person who can give speech in you wedding.
You have to choose somebody who can really talk nice and of course good about you too, after all it’s your day. It could be your best friend, your brother or sister but you have to make sure that he/she is well prepared for it. You do not want someone to stand up in front of all your invitees and try to make up some words just right away. You definitely don’t want your guests to eagerly wait for the speaker to end his speech and shut up. Or hear them talk about things that do not make sense at all and has no connections to you so far.
If you want to avoid these kinds of wedding speeches then you should make sure the speaker knows what kind of gathering he is going to address to and of what level. It actually is a very good idea to ask the wedding speech giver to write down the speech first. This way you can read it before the ceremony and make some additions or omissions if required. And you can also be sure that nothing shocking is coming up to your surprise.
You should not hesitate to set some guidelines so that you get the very exact kind of speech in your wedding that you had dreamt of. You should suggest the wedding speaker to take help of pre written speeches and other lines that’d make the speech more interesting and more welcoming. It is your special day and you shouldn’t let someone else’s thought and talk ruin it in any case. But if you plan it well, the same speech can remain as memorable words that’d echo around your ears till years to come. You can now even tell stories to your grandchild about what amazing things were said in your wedding and how much people have loved it.